"How do I stop avoiding conflict and build deeper intimacy?"
Learn how to overcome conflict avoidance and approach tough conversations successfully. Identify the three biggest conflict traps and how to avoid them. Understand your attachment styles and how they influence conflict. Build confidence in communicating your needs and boundaries.
"How do we keep this momentum going?"
The 6 key agreements to resolve conflict and strengthen connection. How to create a shared vision for your future as a couple.
Tools to keep communication open, even during hard moments. Develop a process to stay emotionally connected in life
LYNDA SPANN, PHD, LMFT
LESBIAN COUPLES COUNSELOR & RELATIONSHIP COACH
A lesbian herself, Lynda has poured her heart and soul into creating transformative relationship coaching programs, courses, and proven therapy options designed specifically for lesbian and queer couples. She’s the world’s leading expert in helping lesbian couples thrive... not only because of her Doctorate in Marriage and Family Therapy, but mostly because she’s walked in your shoes.
Lynda has a deep, lived understanding of the unique struggles, challenges, and strengths of lesbian couples and queer folk.
Lynda and her wife, Lisa have been together since 1995. One of her greatest passions (in addition to her wife, Lisa) is to share with her community everything she’s learned about creating whole, healthy, and thriving lesbian relationships.
Lynda Founded the Lesbian Couples Institute in 2018 and has helped hundreds of couples over the past 25 years.
The biggest and most useful benefit we have taken from Dr. Lynda’s coaching program is improved communication. A shared language and a process to guide us was immensely helpful. It raised the effectiveness bar 10-fold. And it saved our marriage. Forever grateful!
Thank you, Dr. Lynda, for teaching my wife and I the power of communication! Now our conversations are productive and even transformative. And we rediscovered that we really do like each other and want to be the best versions of ourselves together as a couple for life. Without you this would not be possible.
By working with Dr. Lynda, we gained a plethora of new skills and tools for improving our communication as a couple. Now we can talk about topics that we’d been holding in. Learning about attachment styles and how to manage dysregulation has been a game-changer.